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Expert: If You Want To Date A Wall Streeter, You'd Better Learn To Read A 10-K ASAP

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Have you always wanted to date a man who works on Wall Street but found them to be a difficult subset of human to figure out? Today's your lucky day. CNBC, for some reason, is running an "article" penned by a professional matchmaker on that very issue. Having "spent the better part of 12 years learning all the their habits, their likes and dislikes when it comes to dating," Samantha Daniels is eminently qualified to offer the tips you need to summit your Everest. Her how-to-guide includes advice like "keep stories short and sweet because the mind of a Wall Street man is always moving so rapidly and focusing on so many different things that his attention span for social stories is very short," "be sexy," "don't expect him to be romantic," "don’t get upset if your plans get scheduled by his assistant," "don't work on Wall Street" ("Wall Street men tend to be attracted to women who are in industries other than Wall Street") and:

Learn a little something about the financial markets and notice if something huge happens on a given day, negative or positive. Things like the fact that Facebook is going public is not just financial news, it’s world news and you don’t want to seem clueless if you completely missed something like that. You don’t have to become an expert but at least if you know something you can participate in a conversation with your guy. Additionally, you need to be prepared that the volatility of the markets might make your guy’s mood unpredictable, especially on a day that his personal portfolio went down dramatically.

Obviously this one here is key but it's not enough. If you're serious about hunting big game, if you really want to impress him with the extent to which you've got your finger on the pulse, you must also:

* Call up Bloomberg and have them install a terminal in your apartment ASAP (3 screens if you're looking for a casual fling, 15 if you uploaded your pictures to a "What will our baby look like" website after the first date; gotta spend money to make money)
* Print out his portfolio and dial into the companies' earnings calls
* Station a courier at the courthouse so you're the first to know when his firm is indicted
* Order the CFA test prep books and get cracking (if he's studying for the Level 2 CFA, YOU'RE studying for the Level 2 CFA)
* Tap the phone lines of Merkel and Sarkozy; report any activity that might indicate imminent action
* Hire a private detective to follow Bernanke, study his every move (where is he eating? how kempt is his beard? does he cut people off on the freeway in the morning on the way to work? does he look irritable leaving the office at night?), and accurately predict future FOMC decisions

Clearly, these are just jumping off points--that should be followed to a T, unless you're not actually serious about all this in which case, quit wasting our time--if anyone has any other helpful tips to share, please do so now.

How To Date A Wall Street Man [CNBC]


What To Do (Or Not Do) Upon Waking Up In A Car "Driving Through A House," Part II

Back in May, we had a frank discussion about drinking with colleagues and/or clients after work. Specifically, how many drinks one should put away in order to have a good time but not cross any unfortunate lines. At the time, we used a young lady named Sophia Anderson as our guide and said that, assuming you have the tolerance of a 21 year-old female and considered being arrested post-Happy Hour for driving your through a stranger's house one of those lines, no more than a dozen beverages should be consumed, with fourteen being the absolute max. Today we have just a quick update, to those for whom it bears mentioning, that if you're going to ignore said guidelines and have that fifteenth cocktail shortly before accepting a ride home from an equally sloshed coworker who confuses someone's front lawn/foyer/kitchen/backyard patio with the road, you should probably not agree to lie to the police and say you were the one driving. Not even if you're secretly in love with him or her; not even if he or she promises to take take you on vacation after all of this blows over; not even if you were passed out the whole ride and a bit disoriented after "[waking] up as the incident occurred and the car drove through the house." The sneaky punk who conned his drunk and coked-up girlfriend into taking the DWI rap for crashing through, and trashing, a Long Island home in his mom’s Mercedes convertible, was finally charged today with the May 28 crash and ordered held without bail. Suffolk DA Tom Spota said Dan Sajewski, 23, tricked Sophia Anderson, 21, into telling cops that she was behind the wheel when he crashed through the Huntington home of a 96-year-old woman – taking a 30-foot tree with him from the front to the back yard. Spota said the incredible demolition derby was the end result of a night of boozing and cocaine snorting at the $1.7 million mansion of Sajewski’s parents in exclusive Lloyd Harbor – when Sajewski and Anderson took a high speed joyride for more beer. ``We know what really happened that day,’’ said Spota at a press conference after the court session. He said the couple, along with three pals, were doing shots of Jack Daniels and snorting coke at Sajewski’s doctor dad’s home until 4 a.m. The crash occurred during a trip for more Heineken beer, while Sajewski was driving, said Spota. He said Anderson was passed out in the passenger seat and ``told us she wakes up as the incident is occurring and they were driving through the house.’’ Spota said Anderson ``was in love with him’’ and agreed to take the rap, after he promised to pay her bail and legal bills – and take her on a vacation. He broke his word and she revealed it was all a lie. The DA said that when an x-ray technician at the hospital told her she could not have been the driver because of her injuries, Anderson told him ``it’s a little too late for that.’’ LI punk held without bail for May 28 crash that destroyed elderly woman's home [NYP via DI] Earlier: Area Drunk Offers Handy How To Guide Re: Not Being Labeled “That Guy (Who Uses The Front Door Of A House As A Garage Door)” At The Office